Tuesday, August 18, 2015

The Dog Days

The Summer is drawing to a close and it has been a beautiful and eventful season.  Most days have been in the 80's with chilly evenings and mornings.  Over all it has been wonderful.  Yes, there are mosquitoes but we were aware of them long before moving here.  A common joke is that the mosquito is the state bird.  The spiders are what surprised me.  They're everywhere.  Leave something out on the patio for a day - say a chair - and when you come back a day or so later webs blanket the chair.  It's like something out of a bad horror flick.

I mentioned eventful.  We have been busy.    Whether it's splashing around in Grandma & Grandpa's pool, cooking out on the St. Croix River Boomsite with Sara's brother and his family, or attending work-related parties we are quite the little social butterflies.  Unexpected mini-adventures like the Boomsite are wonderful.  It was a beautiful evening spent on the river.  There always seems like there's something to do on our weekends; Sara had her 20th Year High School Reunion, we had a backyard get together for some friends and family, and we got together with some of Sara's family who flew in from the West Coast.

Oh, and then there was our trip to Comotown!  With Grandma, Auntie Diane, cousin Nikki and us parents in tow Evie Sue had a blast! Como Park Zoo & Conservatory is a popular attraction here in St. Paul.  Como Town is a small carnival/amusement park in the larger park.  Evie Sue rode on her very 1st thrill ride!  After spinning around on The Tornado with Daddy she allowed herself to step back and ride the Tea Cups with Mommy.  Sara got a little queasy.  After that it was Bumper Cars, a train ride, some fire engine kids ride where you're squirting a 'burning' building, and finished off her day with the swings!  She was pretty much up for anything.  It was a good day for Evie Sue.  

She's had a few bad days too.  Adjusting to being a big sister, the move across half the country and all of the changes that go along with such big events have started to take their toll on my Jekyll & Hyde.  One moment she's as sweet and loving as ever and then, in the blink of an eye, something switches and she becomes a royal pain in the butt!  She sits in my lap during a morning matinee at the movies, well-behaved and affectionate, and then we come home and she tries to lock her infant sister in a submission hold.  She'll lovingly snuggle up to Ronen, who is enjoying some floor time, and say, 'I love my baby sister," before trying to smother her with forceful hugs and kisses despite our warnings to give her sister some space.  She's three... and a half.  She's a strong-willed child.
It's a only phase.  She doesn't understand what' going on, blah blah blah.  I hope this phase passes soon.  It's hard to find the balance between encouraging her creativity, channeling her never-ending energy supply, and trying not to crush her spirit, or discourage her individuality while keeping her from burning down the house!  One day we'll figure this kid out.

Let's talk soccer; Barclay's Premier League Football to be more specific.  The 2015-2016 season has begun and I am determined to watch more games this season.  I was super excited after catching a few of the Women's World Cup games, and cheering on the US team for the next Premiere League season.  In years past I've got a few games here and there and always cheered for the Liverpool Football Club as a casual fan.  My fandom was  born not from geographic origins, or a family tradition but rather from a show souvenir given to me from a director in honor of an award-winning  performance.  Ever since keeping my costume piece, a LFC warm up jacket, I have cheered for the Reds as best I can.*  This year I determined to do better.  I watched the Liverpool season opener with my family and Evie Sue tried her best to pay attention to the game often cheering on 'Liverpoop!'.  She doesn't quite understand the game or the team rivalries but during another random game she asked if the people in the crowd were going to sing the Liverpool song.  I'll turn her into a fan.  Then maybe we'll get her on the field and see if she has any athletic ability.

Other than that work is work and the cogs continue to turn in the great machine that is consumerism.  Family life, as implied earlier, is a little chaotic with our two daughters, tired parents and a hyper-neurotic dog.  There's not much time to read - I've been on the same book for months - let alone write and besides there's the fact that most of my supplies are in storage and I can't seem to get organized at all plus a whole complicated computer hardware/software issue that is keeping me from accessing old writing projects.  It's a mess.  Fantasy Football is right around the corner so that'll be a fun.  We still hope to make it to some local Minor League Baseball games before the season ends and try to enjoy as much of the remaining Summer as we can.  Autumn will be here before we know it.

*  Today is the 17th of August and whilst watching the the 2nd game/1st home game of the Season for Liverpool I glance down at my Liverpool jacket and noticed that the letters read LFSC and not LFC for Liverpool Football Club.  I then remember that on the back it reads Liverpool LFSC New England USA???  After an extensive google search I realize that my 'authentic team' jacket, a gift given to me by the director of show in which I played a British serial killer, was actually not official but from an American Liverpool Football Supporters Club!  My Premier League loyalty has been based on a fallacy!  Sara just giggled and commented on the quality of dramaturgical research that went into this highly commended theatrical production.  I'm will not be swayed, however, and will continue to root for my Reds!