I was rocking out to the Rolling Stones at work last night. We were stocking the grocery aisle when I serenaded a coworker. 'And I try... and I try... and I try... I really try, coworker.'
A customer looks up at me and seemingly smiles at my silliness. Then he pulls a ball point pen out of his pocket, approaches me in a very serious manner, and places the pen on a shelf. 'Do me a favor,' he starts, 'try and pick that up.'
I do.
He says, ' No, I said TRY and pick that up.'
A little confused I drop the pen and then immediately pick it back up. I look at him and he smirks. I drop the pen again. I start to try again and then I stop... 'Wait. What?'
'Try and pick it up.'
'I did. I picked it up. It's only a pen. If I try I'm pretty sure I can pick it up... every time,' I explain.
He nods and says, 'Exactly. Trying isn't about success or failure. It's a state of mind. Don't try. Do. It's a process and result. If you don't get the result you want then you tweak the process and try again.'
I thanked the grocery store Yoda, and went about my business. I kept revisiting his words all night long and couldn't help but thinking about his theory that it's all a process and result... Hm, who knew a little 'Satisfaction', some dry goods, and your local neighborhood grocery store could be so enlightening?
'Here's to us and all our mistakes and all our losses and the gains we'll make.' -Thomas Hudson's 1st Wife
Thursday, May 10, 2012
Monday, May 07, 2012
Might Be A Little Anxious...
Last night I dreamed that I was working a help desk - fielding questions and demands from an endless line of clients. I was always paired up with a fellow employee, not always the same employee, and often left alone for prolong periods of time when my counterparts would take a break.
At one point I was working with a supervisor and I answered a question about salad dressing. I answered correctly that we did not have the sought after product, suggested an alternate and was feeling pretty confident that I handled myself well. Suddenly, the supervisor corrects me, offers her assistance to the customer, and shoots me a disapproving look for not having the correct information. I was stressed out and started to doubt myself.
Now, in the light of day I realize that I did, indeed, have my information correct. I was right. My stress was unnecessary. I believe that the dream was just in anticipation of an upcoming job interview I'm going on. The brain is a funny thing.
At one point I was working with a supervisor and I answered a question about salad dressing. I answered correctly that we did not have the sought after product, suggested an alternate and was feeling pretty confident that I handled myself well. Suddenly, the supervisor corrects me, offers her assistance to the customer, and shoots me a disapproving look for not having the correct information. I was stressed out and started to doubt myself.
Now, in the light of day I realize that I did, indeed, have my information correct. I was right. My stress was unnecessary. I believe that the dream was just in anticipation of an upcoming job interview I'm going on. The brain is a funny thing.
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